Print this checklist and rank the entries to determine which elements should be priorities, which are potential compromises, and which are not worth much time or energy.
- engagement and wedding rings that are distinctive and inscribed with a memorable message
- a glamorous wedding gown, with a long train and a romantic veil, or something equally beautiful but far less traditional
- a space for the wedding ceremony that is tied to family roots, ethnic or religious heritage, or the roots the couple will create
- wedding vows that express deeply spiritual or religious feelings, or vows that are unusual, reflect the couple's identities and personalities, or are suggestive of their culture, heritage or family ties
- ceremony music that is contemplative and inspiring, or exuberant and festive
- participation in the wedding ceremony by friends or family, or a ceremony with few participants
- a special space for the reception or celebration
- ambiance: daytime or evening, dancing or conversation, indoors or out
- design and decor of ceremony and/or reception space
- style of reception music, whether for background or for dancing
- an abundance of champagne, wine, mineral water or a selection of specialty beers
- an open bar to increase conviviality
- formal portraits or candid shots at the wedding and reception
- delicious, memorable food
- a beautiful wedding cake that also tastes great
- expressive, sentimental toasts by friends and family
- a warm, exuberant party with three generations dancing together or a cooler atmosphere with no children allowed
As you make choices, think through the time and financial commitment involved in arranging each of these wedding components. Identify the elements you simply love -- whether it's great music, gorgeous flowers, unusually delicious food and vintage champagne, or something far less elaborate.
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