Taking a walk down the aisle doesn't always mean a trip to the cleaners. But many couples are surprised at the fees and charges they encounter at the chapel. Even if you've been a lifelong member of a church or synagogue, you may get hit for hundreds of dollars in fees for a wedding.
One bride we interviewed expressed shock at a $600 bill for her wedding -- for facilities rental, organist fees, "suggested donations" and the like.
What if you are not a member of a church, but you want a church wedding? Well, a few churches allow nonmembers to use their facilities for weddings. But beware, the fees are normally higher for nonmembers. Secondly, members get first shot at dates, so nonmembers may not be able to book a wedding until, say, three months in advance. Obviously, this is a roll of the dice.
When to start planning
Especially for popular wedding months, start your search for a ceremony site as soon as you have selected the date. Prime dates can book up to a year in advance -- after all, there are only so many Saturdays in June.
Keep in mind that popular months vary by region. For example, in the South, December is a particularly popular month. In Arizona, and many areas of the desert Southwest, the spring months (such as May) are almost as popular as the hot summer months.
Start looking for a site
as soon as you pick a date
if you choose a peak month.
After all, there are only
so many Saturdays in June.
Dates to avoid
Be aware that religious restrictions may rule out getting married during certain times of the year.
Catholics and Greek Orthodox avoid marrying during Lent, and Jews don't have weddings during the High Holy Days (usually in September or October).
Alternative site sources
Is a religious ceremony site not for you? Here's a list of sources to use to find alternatives:
Local visitors/tourism bureaus
Many have a guide to local facilities that are available for weddings and receptions. Your local Chamber of Commerce or Historical Society office may also have more leads.
Local parks departments
Most city and county parks and historical areas are administered by a parks department. Ask them which sites are most popular for wedding ceremonies.
Local libraries
For historic sites, check out the book "Places" at your local library. This directory lists historical and other interesting places (many of which are available for rent) across the country.
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