The modern bridal registry was born out of frustration at a china store at the turn of the century when a confused clerk started logging an engaged couple's china patterns and the number of pieces bought on index cards.
The technology has changed, but the theory behind gift registries remains the same.
When you go to a store to register, a person assigned by the store will walk you through a list of endless wedding gift ideas. This process may be totally computerized in larger chain stores, or more personal and hands-on in smaller stores.
Once you set your wedding date, you can register. The length of time you can be registered varies by store. Some stores keep you on the list through several wedding anniversaries.
Many stores offer computer
registries that allow guests
to see what you registered
for and what has already
been purchased.
Nationwide chains offer computer registry throughout the country. Even though you're getting married in North Carolina, your Aunt Gertrude can still go to your preferred department store in Portland, Oregon. When she types in your name, she finds out what you registered for and what has already been purchased for you.
The standard items to register for -- once thought essentials by our mothers -- were china, crystal and silver. You can also register for sheets, towels, kitchen linens, appliances and even furniture.
There are really no etiquette rules about registering for items. But, it's best to give your guests not only a variety of items, but a variety of price ranges.
Now that you've chosen your loot, how do you get all this registry information out to your family and friends? Word of mouth. Spread the word through family and friends.
It is never proper to send a list of where you are registered with the wedding invitation. You can, however, include the list of stores on shower invitations.
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